Cemetery Etiquette

Cemetery Etiquette

A cemetery is a unique place. While it is part of the everyday scene, it is not part of everyday life. That is to say, it is a place where tranquility and quiet are the desired norm, and activities of everyday life should be suspended.

Be Sympathetic

Avoid playing loud music in your car with the windows down, as it can be heard by everyone nearby.

Keep Children in 'Check'

Running, shouting, or engaging in rough play on the ground is discouraged here. This setting is not intended for childhood games. Please ensure that children do not play on any of the monuments. While it is beneficial to acquaint children with the concept of paying respects in a cemetery, they may not fully comprehend the significance of everything within this sacred space.

Do Your Best to Not Walk Over Graves

Common sense dictates that you should be aware of the general shape of a grave. Walk between the headstones and refrain from standing on top of a burial site.

Follow Cemetery Rules

Near the entrance, you'll often find a sign displaying operating hours and guidelines regarding decorations, among other things. It's important to adhere to these rules. These decoration rules are in place to prevent excessive debris accumulation, which the cemetery caretakers would have to remove. Keep in mind that items like flowers and other objects can easily be carried away by the wind. It would be greatly appreciated if anyone comes across any litter on the path, regardless of its source, could kindly pick it up.

Try Not to Remain in Cemetery After Dark

Most cemeteries are open from dawn to dusk.

Don't Litter

This places additional responsibilities on the caretakers and demonstrates a lack of consideration for other grieving families. A good principle to follow is "pack your trash": either carry your waste with you when you leave or dispose of it in designated trash bins.

Leash Your Pets

When you bring your pets, be sure to clean up after them.

Follow the Roadways and Don't Drive on Grass

Drive at a reduced speed and adhere to any traffic signs placed within the cemetery. Exercise caution to avoid pedestrians, as they may be emotionally distressed and not fully aware of their surroundings.

Be Respectful

Please maintain a low volume when speaking and refrain from using offensive language.

Don't Be Overly Friendly When Talking to Strangers

Other visitors may want to be alone.

Don't Touch any Monuments or Gravestones

These memorials hold deep significance for the families who placed them. It's important to note that some older monuments may be in a state of disrepair and could crumble with even the slightest touch.

Don't Take Photos of Other People or Other Funerals

This is a very private time for people. It's best to steer clear of any funerals occurring, and don't get in the way of funeral processions.